god is the only thing i can binge on , without feeling fat.

Less than two weeks till South Africa, I feel a a combination between fear, excitement , regret and disorganisation. I based my decision to go South Africa, on probably not the best reasons. If i went with my heart , and had more than a weekend to decide, then i honestly believe I should of been jetting off to India. However, I know, God will never punish me, or refuse to use me in South Africa, of course I am confident in his faithfulness, he will use me wherever I go. I have been given peace about my team and outreach this week, God eased my worry and guilt, however it's my choice not to dwell on "what if" and rather look forward to "what can be".



This week has been focused on spending time with our outreach teams, to begin with, there was a tinge of "forced fun". At the start of the week, i was so worried, I am in a team with only 2 of my best friends, Nataly and Landon, apart from that, the rest are genuinely lovely people, but not necessarily those I would usually want to spend my time with. However, God gave me a real passion and love for those I could not love. I am so excited about South Africa. I have been listening to the 'lion king' soundtrack on repeat to get my heart pumping. A huge worry for our group as a whole, was the issue that our group is completely different and diverse, in comparison to the other teams. The Australia team are all dancers, The Japan team are all musicians and The India team are all artists.... South Africa was just the odd ones.
How can we possibly connect with individuals in South Africa on a "deep" level, if there are a bunch of us hanging around in a huddle, looking like a cult?


God spoke to our group, it is exactly because of our individuality and diversity, we will be able to reach the most diverse groups. It's a strength- this way , our unique personalities will shine. When i am weak, someone else will be there to be strong. We had a picture of-water. Like water, we will be capable to get in to all of the cracks, going deeper and further than a rock could, we can reach places that others cannot- simply because of our diversity.



I always imagined evangelism , to be the way to resolve every issue going... rape- for example, simple, lead the rapists to salvation.. boom, next one! NO. That's not disciplining at all. I will have little or no influence if i step in to a place , share my testimony , expect everyone to conform and then leave. You need to trace the core issue, for example, AIDS.. derives from sexual immorality, which comes from a place of desperate intimacy , which results from a lack of love. BINGO! LOVE LOVE LOVE, and not just to merely reflect "Jesus' love for them"- or whatever that is, but to really grow relationships with them and feed them with the same love and comfort Jesus has given to us. My plan is not to plant churches, and grow the christian faith, and then leave. I want to be like 'the good Samaritan' , i want to look for that dying man on the road, i want to love that small little girl, who nobody else wants to touch or talk to , i want to hold them all in my arms. I want to disciple them . I want my heart to break, like Jesus' does, when he looks upon our suffering. I want my prayers not to be just in vain, i want them to last through the night , i want the picture of the starving, aid's filled, lice infested children to stick with me forever.


So, as a team, we are learning , growing and seeking more and more. Pray for us to be truly unified, and .... also, this is a plead. It's not just about me anymore, its more "we" , the majority of my team , are struggling to pull together ground fee's. So, open up your hearts... and, open up your purses? :)


My brain was friiiiiied last week. We had the genius that is named, Patrick Dodson lecturing us on 'destiny and partnering with Jesus'. This guy was fearless, he was not afraid to challenge us in anyway, his first lecture, was a bunch of accusations.... "your selfish .. your selfish" . I came out of the first lecture bedazzled, who is this man? Everyone was raving about him, what was i missing ? I decided, I must be losing sight of what he is trying to say, I decided I would sit on the front desk in every lecture scribbling down everything he said, I prayed before every lecture, "god give me an open heart... let me like this man".

I realised I have become quite prideful. DTS is not a medical cure, its not the be all end all. I have been acting as if I know everything the world has to bring at me, when actually I have no proof that I have changed at all. I might have changed in the enviroment of YWAM, but thats because I have an amazing support structure, regular worship times and leaders who are contantly pouring in to my life. Being "transformed" will be put to test when I come home, and step away from the Christian bubble of YWAM. My heart always has to be learning more and more, never satisfied, or filled to the brim. Patrick broke down so many walls. He basically told us that society creates retarded people. We go to university , colleges, do these random courses because we believe it is the "right" path to take, we are taught to concentrate on our weaknesses, and improve them .. which simply results, in missing out on improving our strengths and gifts. He emphasised the point of not waiting on God to do all the work in our lives, tell us where to go , what to do , who to marry , which job to take ... etc, we are not babies, we should not be dependent on him. He wants to rise up mature children, we need to realise we are in an interdependent relationship with him, he lives inside of us .. he gave us a brain to make decisions, he put inside passions and desires in heart... go live them out ! It reminds me of that old analogy of the father and the child, letting the child on a bicycle for the first time, fully aware that he will fall off, but wanting him to learn. We are not God's robots, lets simplify the christian faith ... he gave us free will.
My mind has been going round in circles about my future lately , in my quiet times, worship, nearly every part of the day, I have been begging God to tell me a direction. I have a place at Roehampton university to study English Literature. However , I have never felt peace about going to university.

A song was been played one time I was lying on the floor talking to God. I asked him to tell me what to do in regards to the future, the lyrics of the song were "i will live out the dreams you placed in me, shout down the walls of fear". That's exactly it , I will live out the dreams God has placed in me, and not fear what the hell society thinks of my plans...Because, my desire in my life is to glorify God , and do everything in practice and action to honor him, not myself and my earthly needs.
My passion is English and writing , if I could have my own way , I think I would be writing all day long, but I also have so much compassion for young girls, dealing with loss, eating disorders, and bereavement.
I was thinking , how can I bring something to the world that no one else has done before, that will actually have an impact in people's lives and not just be benefical to me, or even have a financial gain.
So, i decided I want to write books, as many as I can, write write write , about real stuff.. real people ..but not with some cheesy christian theme. I dont want my books just to be read for Christians, I want the world to read them so they can see how God can work in people's lives. I am applying to the YWAM base in Texas, to do the school of writing , which is 6 months long , including an internship , which allows your manuscript to be published and bound. It begins in January!
I then want to go to London School of Theology to study for a degree in counseling and theology when I am 21, they only accept applicants at 21, because of emotional requirements.
I am determined for this life plan, I have no fear of man, or the time it will take to complete my training and studying , I dont want to settle for just an average uninfluential life , I know I could go university now and probably have a great time, complete english literature and do everything my own way .. but I want the highest and best for me. This life is so temporary, my goal is to do everything to please God.


Patrick also talked about how society programmes us to think about relationships. If we want to fall in love , we should go out and create it. God does not bring people together. Its probably only happened about twice in the bible, do I honestly think I am going to be third person? Wow, i have been so naive. We need to deal with the baggage in our past before we can move in to the next relationship, the world teaches us a failed relationship, in to another failed relationship, in to another, can magically lead to a marriage working ? ... (date-fail-date-fail-marriage?)

I am learning how not to expect from people, to stop putting them at a high standard on some sort of pedastool and to start accepting people for who they are. In the beginning of every relationship we have , we immediatley hype up the person inside our minds, "they are amazing , we have only known each other for 5 minutes but it feels like years", erm no... I have only known them for 5 minutes. This probably explains why the highest divorce rates are in the first 3 years of marriage , because the person you marry does not live up to the image you have created in your mind.



This week i have been realising how deep and constant God's love is for me, so many times I am so nonchalent about the amazing love he has for me, that he would take a bullet for me, that he would go to the measure of dying for me. Its overwhelming how much God loves us even though he knows everything, every bad thought , every cruel motivated action, all our destructive plans... he is with me always , and he still looks down on me and say's thats my girl. I think he is boasting in heaven when he just glance's at me.




Since we live by the spirit let us keep in step with the spirit let us not become concieted, provoking or envying each other. listen to what the spirit says. Take the risk and we discover the reality of his work!

THIS WAS AN ODD BLOG , RANDOM.. ILL WRITE A NEW ONE SOON...